More Kids Coming Come to Quality Schooling By Cal Thomas
(Child rearing)
THE ONE FINGER RULEWhen my three granddaughters were born four months apart and the twins moved into our house at eight months, my close friend offered me her secret to entertaining grandchildren with few mishaps. "Teach them the 'one finger rule.'" All of her five grandchildren learned it at a young age. The success of the method surprised me. I picked up my granddaughter and said, "Well, Mark, you just watch." I hugged her and walked all around the great room. "Hannah, you may touch anything in this room you want. But, you can only use one finger." I demonstrated the technique by touching my forefinger to the African sculpture on the mantle. Hannah followed my example. "Good girl. Now what else would you like to touch?" She stretched her finger toward another object on the mantle. I allowed her to touch everyth.ing in sight, plants, glass objects, TV, VCR, lamps, speakers, candles and artificial flowers. If she started to grab, I gently reminded her to use one finger. She always obeyed.
(About TV viewing)
THE OFF SWITCH
I saw a story on the news the other day about an eaglet that somehow
became separated from his mother.
A turkey farmer found him and brought him back to his farm to see if
the little bird could survive by bonding with the birds there.
The eagle had done quite well, growing to powerful, handsome maturity.
But there's a problem: the eagle has been living and acting and -- one can
only assume -- thinking like a turkey for so long that he seems to believe
that he IS one.
According to the news story, the turkey farmer has been trying to
teach the eagle to fly, but the majestic bird has been groveling for grain
with the turkeys for so long he can't seem to grasp the concept.
I've been thinking about that eagle lately -- a magnificent creature
that has the potential to soar with... well, with eagles. But he's
grounded just as surely as if his wings had been clipped because experience has taught him to focus his attention on the ground rather than the heavens.
Of course, he's a bird. We humans would never allow ourselves to fall
in to such a trap. Would we?
A colleague was complaining about the explicit pictures that were
coming into her home while watching a highly publicized "reality-based"
program. "It's disgusting," she said. "Why do they have to go into such
graphic detail?" "I thought this show was known for that sort of thing," I said. "What did you expect?" "I expect them to remember that there are children out there," she said. "I had to send my kids to their rooms."
"Why don't you just turn the TV off," I wondered, "or change the channel?"
"Are you kidding?" she replied. "This was the season finale! I
couldn't miss that!" So it's come to this: voyeurism as must-see TV, with
pseudo-documentaries and tawdry game shows parting closed curtains and inviting curious gawkers to see and hear what they've never seen or heard before -- whether or not it's any of their business.
In a way, television is like that eagle. It is an incredible medium,
capable of soaring to wondrous heights. That's why it's so frustrating
when it expends so much energy on turkey stuff. But television isn't
solely responsible for this trend toward indiscretion. My experience with
the medium (including six years as a newspaper's television critic) leads
me to believe that TV's decision-makers only give the public what they
think it wishes to see. Unfortunately, they rarely underestimate the moral
depths to which large numbers of television viewers are willing to sink.
How else do you explain Jerry Springer, Howard Stern and "Blind Date"?
Which, come to think of it, makes us a little like that eagle, too --
doesn't it?
The more we devour the studied mindlessness and exploitation
television feeds us, the less likely TV will be to invest the creative
energy required to produce programs that help our minds expand and our
souls soar. It's up to us to demand excellence from television through our
viewing habits or else the quality options will disappear entirely,
replaced by a steady diet of soap operas, leering talk shows and
sensationalized perspectives on reality.
Then it really will be turkey television. And maybe that will be
enough to finally make us reach for the "off" switch.
-- Joseph Walker
FUN 2000-2001 Resolutions
RU-4.0 Public Schooling
The Family Unschoolers Network believes that public schooling programs cannot provide the student with a comprehensive education experience.
1. When public schooling occurs, students enrolled must meet all parental requirements.
2. Public schooling should be limited to the children of the immediate family who choose to attend public school. As long as the expenses of public schooling are borne by the taxpayers, those funds must also
be made available to parents/guardians for use in the educational program of their choice whether that be public schools, charter schools, private schools, or homeschools. Instruction should be by persons who
are approved by the appropriate parent or guardian, and a curriculum approved by the parent or guardian should be used.
The Network also believes that public-schooled students should not participate in any extracurricular activities that are not open to all students. Extracurricular programs paid for by the taxpayers must be open to all residents.
The Network further believes that local homeschool parents should have the authority to determine grade placement and/or credits earned toward graduation for students entering or re-entering a homeschool setting from a public school setting.3 (1988, 2000)
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1) Public school programs artificially segregate children by age and require seating at desks set in rows. This does not permit a normal social interaction with other children or adults such as may occur in
everyday life outside of a school setting. The low number of adults encountered in the public school setting provides little opportunity for children to see the modeling of appropriate social behaviors and
they are thus more likely to see only the behaviors of other children their own age without an appropriate social context.
In addition, public schools cannot provide the customized, extensive and flexible curriculum available to the homeschool. The public school setting artificially schedules learning and segregates it into separate subjects with a limited amount of allocated time per day. This limits activities to what can fit the allocated time slot and to what can easily be classified as related to a particular subject. The predetermined schedule also means that many children will either not have enough time to master the material before moving on, or will have to waste time on material they have already mastered before moving on.
2) Parents have a compelling interest in the education of their children and should therefore be able to determine the requirements that must be met when their children are educated in public school.
3) Test scores and evaluations from public schools may not be accurate indicators of knowledge or proficiency and are often of little value in determining grade placement or credits for a homeschool setting. The scores often reflect only the ability to memorize material long enough to complete a test, and the skill set being evaluated is often limited. Therefore, the Network recommends that the initial months of homeschooling a former public school student be used primarily to explore the interests and abilities of the student while allowing the family to adapt to the challenges of the independence and integration of
the flexible and multi-disciplinary environment of homeschooling which can provide hands-on, "real world" activities not available in public school settings.
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